on Saturday and Sunday, closing at 2 a.m. Illgen says he will probably screen the film at the bar soon. Recently, the R & R Lounge was chosen as the setting for an independent film called Gay Bashed from director Jc Scott Gray it was filmed last November, with some of the staff and customers cast as extras, and is scheduled to come out this month.
Coming up on May 19, the bar will host a Mad Hatter Party, which mostly involves everyone wearing their finest hats, whether fedoras, derbys, top hats, crowns or anything else that suits you.
This weekend there will be a free Mexican buffet, $4 Mexican beers on Friday, $1 off tequila shots on Saturday, and both of those specials on Sunday. Holiday celebrations, including this weekend's Cinco de Mayo festivities (which will run from Friday to Sunday), are always festive, especially in the warmer months, when the R & R puts on a barbecue outside in the parking lot. The bar hosts ’70s-themed costume parties, kilt nights, pajama parties and many other opportunities to dress up. The jukebox was turning out a variety of pop hits, and everyone in attendance discussed their thoughts about Taylor Swift's new song, "Delicate," and the debate about whether or not the video was ripped off from a Spike Jonze perfume commercial. TVs displaying a rotation of ads for specials, glamour shots of the bartenders with notes on what night you can find them, candid shots of bar regulars and pictures of half-naked guys that came "from the Internet," according to Esteban, add a little eye candy to the room. The small, dark bar isn't much different than any other neighborhood bar in town, with a few dart boards, a Bonus Hole machine and a jukebox for entertainment. It's just a chill neighborhood bar that's also a gay bar. It's not in a gay neighborhood or strip of gay hot spots, which is part of the appeal of the R & R. Sarah McGill According to Illgen and his team, their clientele is eclectic and the bar doesn't have a reputation for catering to any particular subset of the gay community older and younger men and women, drag queens, members of the trans community, bears and cisgender folks are welcome and make themselves at home - as long as "your money is green and you can get along with everyone," Illgen adds. After the Triangle closed, Illgen worked as a manager at the R & R for several years and then bought the place in 2008. That's not to be confused with the new Triangle, which, although located in the same building at 2036 Broadway, has a reputation considerably tamer than the original. Illgen was also an owner at another historic gay bar in Denver, the original Triangle Bar, a legendary leather bar that shook up the scene from the ’70s until closing in the early 2000s. Also in the ’70s, the bar became an "out and proud, rainbow-on-the-door gay bar," according to owner Rich Illgen. The R's don't stand for rest and relaxation, though it's a great place to enjoy some of that, but for Rick and Roger, the owners at the time. In the ’70s, the bar was renamed the R & R Lounge. Then we snagged some cocktails and Esteban showed us the many accolades that the R & R has earned over the years, including the pages in Denver's Best Dive Bars: Drinking and Diving in the Mile-High City (penned by former Westword bar writer Drew Bixby), a Westword award for Best Gay Bar 2016, and an OutFront award for "Best Place to Sit in Part of Denver's Queer History" in 2017.īut there's much more history to the bar that rightfully claims to be "Denver's oldest gay bar." The location has been a bar since the 1950s, when it was known as the Coral Lounge and was considered a "mixed" bar, which is basically what people called an incognito gay bar back then. Our eyes were drawn to the long list of the month's birthdays on one wall, and Esteban brought us an old 2013 Ace Hardware Calendar so we could pencil in our birthdays, to be added to the wall during the proper upcoming month.
The small, welcoming crowd that night was overseen by bartender Esteban, who immediately greeted us. I'd seen the gleaming neon sign, complete with a martini glass (very old Denver, very Colfax, just how I like it) many times, but I'd never been inside until a friend invited me for a drink on a recent weekend night. At 4958 East Colfax, it also just happens to be within walking distance of my house in the Mayfair/Hale neighborhood. The R & R Lounge has been welcoming one and all as an East Colfax neighborhood gay bar since before most Denverites knew that there were gay bars in their midst.